Hello mutts,
I decided to describe everything here so that you can get to know me and my expectations better.
0. Useful links, my calendar, social media and virtual relationship opportunities.
1. Who am I, where did the idea for bdsm come from, what turns me on to it.
2. Available practices, favorite games, my limits, rules and prices.
3. Registration process for the session. ---- New ----
4. What I expect from you.
5. Selling my stuff.
6. Closer relationships with submissives, supervision, chastity contracts, shopping and restaurant trips.
7. FAQ, including: "Is it possible without a deposit?"
P.S. Please do not contact me about sessions via Onlyfans. Write an email or on Twitter.
Ad. 0. Useful links, my calendar, social media, virtual relationships.
https://justpaste.it/Shinaina_custom_clips - I'm starting to create custom videos with a visible face.
https://onlyfans.com/saintshinaina - uncensored content that I do not post on any other websites (solo photos and videos, as well as with submissives)
https://linktr.ee/saintshinaina - all my portals - I recommend contacting via Twitter
shinaina666@gmail.com - my email
https://justpaste.it/terminarz_Shinainy - my calendar and travel plans.
https://justpaste.it/platnosci_payments - here you will find how you can pay me back ;)
https://justpaste.it/mojefantazjewirtualnychrelacji - what our virtual relationship can look like
(Do not contact me through several different portals, because I will lose track of who I am talking to)
Ad. 1. Who I am, how I got into femdom, what turns me on about it.
I am sure you liked my pictures on the portals you visited. They are mysterious, because in my opinion mysteriousness has more power of attraction. For the time being you won't see my face on the internet. Although I'm sure my looks would be a magnet for you, I can't afford that kind of recognition. You will find out how beautiful I am during a video interview, when we will set the exact date and place of the session/meeting.
Above all, I aim for live meetings. I find it a great opportunity to grow, to push the boundaries and discover one's personality and sexuality. Over the past year, I have made great progress in my development and I have no intention of stopping. I want to experience new things, meet new people, discover myself in new roles.
On a daily basis, however, stepping out of my comfort zone is not so easy. As a 19-year-old, I have little space for such experiments, and the stares or flirting with people I pass on the street are not enough for me. What gives me real satisfaction is your admiration, your adoration, your total devotion. It is an amazing feeling when an older, serious man falls to his knees in front of me and asks to be accepted into my arms. When your everyday maturity and dutifulness completely disappears and your knees soften under the influence of my voice.
I can be feisty, arrogant and dominant. I can be vulgar and assertive. And in all this I can be sweet and infantile as well. I can finally be myself, plus you'll pay me for it. The collection of these seemingly mutually exclusive traits, which have been vilified by my family and school, allows me to completely capture your mind. On my own terms.
It is not to say that in every situation I will be the dominatrix from the movies you watch. It's still new territory for me and certain people or situations are not entirely comfortable for me. I could grit my teeth, suppress my emotions and cover up with the mask of an arrogant, cheeky Mistress, but that's not me. I want to feel comfortable and only in this state of mind show you where you belong.
This is something which is incredibly important for me and I hope that you will try to analyze the current situation with me for a while. I really, really don't want my domination to become a theater, something as unnatural as I see it in social media. Are you really excited by empty name-calling directed in your direction from people to whom you have not yet given this power? During a phone call, a meeting, or a session, I often feel like calling you names, and I want to shame you into being humiliated by a cute teenager. However, these empty insults always seem to be feigned and it amazes me how often it reaches submissives. Don't count on me to swear at you in situations that aren't appropriate at all. Make an appointment for a session, for a cashmeet and only then surrender to me, show yourself as the cunt you like to be.
There is also a chance that the vision of meeting me is overwhelming you. You are afraid, stressed and prefer to stay in front of the computer screen. You are wondering how you can pay tribute to me. I will accept a gift from you, your hard-earned money or take you in under my virtual control. I may even send you my wet panties if you offer the right amount, but it's all meant to gradually convince you that it's worth stepping out of your safety bubble and experiencing a real session.
This is something I am still trying to understand. Your weakness and the mechanisms that make you so willing to run away from what draws you to these situations. The simplest answer would be that when you're already in the emotional state that makes you want to have a real meeting, you'd rather jerk off to save money and time. And this is probably often the case, but after talking to many submissives I am also convinced that it is your personality, fears and various complexes that make you prefer to stay aside. You comment on pictures where others, which are braver than you, are licking my feet. Yet you only fantasize, without taking real actions. I hope that for some of you here I can be an ideal mommy who will introduce you safely to the world of service and devotion to women.
And what makes it the most fun for me is how differently you all understand your submission. So please remember that after the session I really want to talk to you, to get to know your feelings, to see if I have been able to read you, your desires and imaginations. I have had a lot of luck in my life, that I could explore a lot of my sexuality, that I have always been curious about it and I have always had space for it, so I want to help you to uncover your desires as well.
Ad. 2. Available practices, favorite plays, my boundaries, rules and prices.
My favorite practices are:
- whipping, feminization, foot fetish (foot gagging the most), pet play, pissing (paid 150 PLN extra for having to hold my pee), slapping, humiliation, pegging, POT (I especially enjoy torturing you with my magic wand that stimulates your head after orgasm), kicking you on the balls, kicking you basically everywhere, trampling, crushing your toys and precious sentimental things.
And my favorite fetishes:
- obsession, obsessiooooon! with my feet - bare, in shoes, in stockings or in pantyhose.
My boundaries:
- You will not see me conducting a session naked, you will not lick anything but my feet, calves, or hands, and you will not touch me without my permission. I also do not practice wrestling with new submissives, no headscissors, but maybe you can convince me to do that after a longer acquaintance
Other practices you may experience during the session:
- physical domination:
breath control, bondage, cbt, whipping, scratching, fisting, gagging, kicking, pegging, strap-on, anal stimulation, trampling
- psychological domination:
ignoring, feminization, findom, humiliation, pet play, spitting, role play, sissy play, small dick humiliation, training, insults, playing with food
- erotic domination:
magic wand, tease and denial, JOI, chastity belt (I can lock you in, I have padlocks)
(If I haven't included a practice that interests you, ask about it. But expect the price to change.)
I do not accept drunk or drugged people. You are welcome to come with wine, which I will treat you with during the session if I feel like it, but under no circumstances do I want to smell alcohol from you before the session.
As for the fee for a real session, I charge from 600 PLN for 1 hour, 1100 PLN for 2h and 1500 PLN for 3h. If you are into latex and want me to wear one for you I charge more and we can discuss that but bare minimum is 800 PLN for an hour. Deposit is 50%.
Trying to schedule a session day before or on the same day I might offer a different price for my time. It all depends on what I have in plans, how many subs are willing to come and how much time I have for the sessions. Remember that when I'm on a trip in Warsaw or some other cities I tend to be in chaos, so don't be surprised if I don't respond to your message. Try one more time, but keep in mind that it is best to schedule session with me on 1-2 weeks prior.
Ad. 3. Registration process for the session.
I don't organize sessions as often as before. (you can read why here: https://justpaste.it/shinainaevolving)
Now i inform my submissives about where and when they can serve me. Leave me your e-mail address and the city you are interested in(in Poland), and I will inform you a week or two before my arrival.
If you are living abroad you can pay for my flights, accomodation and time I am gonna spend there to convince me to visit your city ;)
1. You can check my availability at this address:
https://justpaste.it/terminarz_Shinainy
2. Using one of the portals available here: https://linktr.ee/saintshinaina (preferably Twitter), let me know in which city (Poznan, Warsaw, Cracow, Katowice, Wroclaw) you would like to meet me.
3. Then wait for an email informing you where and when I will be available.
4. In response, propose the hours that suit you and wait until I order you to pay a deposit as confirmation of the session date.
4. After making the deposit, I will send you a questionnaire to complete before the meeting. There you will find questions about experience, favorite practices, boundaries, and everything else that will help me prepare the session. I will also give you the meeting place then.
5. You arrive on time and start by washing your hands. I am not interested in any translations, I do not extend the session.
Ad. 4. What I expect from you.
I expect very fundamental elements like hygiene, culture in behavior and speech. If the session is to include pegging then you are to be thoroughly enemaed. Don't be pushy, you should be there for me more than I am for you. You are paying me, but it is my own comfort and my desires that take precedence.
I will really appreciate it if you trust me. Instead of sending me a million messages, try to make an appointment for a phone call and share your most important questions there. We will discuss the rest during the session.
It's nice if you bring me a gift, but please contact me in this matter or buy a Zara or Allegro gift card. You can also bring a bottle of Martini Asti ;)
Ad. 5. Selling my stuff.
I am selling my worn clothes - panties, socks, tights, shoes, but I will consider other suggestions, e.g. my saliva or pee (I've already shipped it in the past, but I encourage you to have it live! hihihi), soaked tights from masturbating with my magic wand, and so on. Feel free to message me, I'm curious!
- Panties - 100 PLN - my pussy gets wet a lot and I have been getting feedbacks that it smells great! yay! I have a super pussy :3
- Socks and tights - 100 PLN - I'll wear those socks during a workout and I'll make sure to properly sweat in them
- Shoes - the price varies highly in this case ;)
- Tops, sweaters or leggings that has my smell on them - ranging from 100 to 300 PLN
Ad. 6. Closer relationships with submissives, supervision, chastity contracts.
I like it less and less the vision of guiding my submissives, defining the purpose of the virtual relationship, punishing them. I like it less and less to be nice and committed to you. The reason for this is how most of you behave. I do, however, differentiate virtual relationships into the following:
- I prefer to guide submissives who are very close to me and whom I strongly trust seeing how much they care about the relationship. Everything that happens between us then comes out naturally, gradually and is very flexible in its form. But this flexible form is a double-edged sword. Because not always your personality traits inspire a sadistic desire in me to control you and you can easily guess what may happen next. Its absence usually results in your laziness, the emergence of escape mechanisms from my assignments. Especially if the tasks are not related to sexuality.
- A virtual relationship for which you will pay me. But don't expect much, I won't prioritize you, because I haven't seen you under my feet and some of the natural processes cannot be overcome with money.
- Chastity contract - here I have one fairly rigid rule. You will report to me daily when you are masturbating. Yes, masturbating. The chastity cage allows you to have a lot of fun - with your butt, with your nipples, and also by massaging the area between your anus and your testicles.I want you to keep increasing the amount of time you spend on it week by week.
My other kinky ideas- https://justpaste.it/mojefantazjewirtualnychrelacji (PL) - ask in private about English one.
FAQ:
- Is it possible to meet without an advance payment?
I understand that many of you have had unpleasant experiences with scammers and you have your own rule that you will not make a payment. However, I have had a lot of unpleasant experiences in the reverse situations.
Sometimes when I don't have an alternative I make exceptions, but usually there is no such possibility and then the only option is to meet at an earlier time with a deposit or come to the specified address a few hours before the meeting by sending me a photo confirming that you are at the place.
You can confirm on Twitter how much I participate in this world, you have the option to talk with me by phone or via video chat. Think about whether the other profiles out there have been as thoroughly managed as mine. It would be foolish of me to take 1/3 of the total amount from you and never make a profit on you ever again.
- Is there an option for a scripted session?
Sure! Although I must like the script, our roles must seem natural and interesting.
- Can you dress according to my vision?
You can tell me about your visions during our correspondence and there's a good chance I'll make some of them come true, but don't expect me to send you photos of my closet and to dress as you dictate.
- Is it possible to negotiate the price or make it up in some way?
Nope! If you want to do something for me, you do it out of your own free will, not hoping to gain anything that way.
- Is it possible to become your driver or cleaner?
First you need to have a session with me. I need to trust you and feel comfortable enough around you to let you into my private part of life.
- Can I invite you to dinner?
Yes, but you have to pay for the time I spend with you as well. It's not a problem for me to go out and spend 200 PLN on dinner (there's a good chance that someone will pay for it :3). So don't expect that this is something amazing for me. What can be amazing is the atmosphere between us, your behavior, intelligence, culture and devotion. Those are the things that I might like.
- Can I invite you for a session at my place?
The first meeting has to take place at my place or in a rented hotel. If I trust you enough, then I might come to you for the second or third session ;)
I will try to keep posting answers to other questions that are frequently asked.