Want Your Ex Back? “Wipe” Away the Negative Impacts That Destroyed It

If your ex has just dumped you, you probably have tons of questions that are flying about in your hand. If you want your ex back, some questions such as:

- What do I do now?

- How can I fix this?

- Is there hope to even fix it?


Before you completely break down, you need to know that there is hope. Some relationships can be fixed as long as you know what to do. If you want your ex back, then keep in mind that there is some hope.


Before you do anything, you need to first ask what prompted him or her to break up with you. This needs to be answered so you can find a way to fix the issue. If you fail to do so, then you really can’t move forward to get them back. Your ex fixed his or her problem by dumping you. If you think an apology is the only way to go, you need to know first off that it’s a start but won’t do the trick completely. You need to figure out what went wrong and fix it, if you can.


If you really want your ex back, there are ways to “wipe the slate clean” and start anew but it does take some doing, some effort and some time. You can’t just think one thing will fix all your problems. No, you have to plot out all your moves so the relationship can start fresh. If you want a second chance with your ex, you need to be sure this is possible. There are three ways to help you achieve your ultimate goal.


Achieving the Unattainable Goal Number (1) - Cut off Contact


Take a breather from one another for about a month. By doing this, you lessen the chance of yelling at one another, therefore, destroying any chance for a reconciliation. With emotions running rampant and stress being rather high, it’s not inconceivable to lose your cool when you see your ex. You don’t want to make this task any harder than it already is. Just avoid speaking or seeing him or her for as long as you can.


Achieving the Unattainable Goal Number (2) - Avoid Desperate Measures


Whenever people are desperate and depressed, they have a tendency to do two very destructive behaviors called drunken dialing and text message terrorism. Just by listing them, you should know already why these are very negative items. Don’t ever let your ex know how depressed you are or how lonely you are too. Drinking in moderation is fine but should be avoided whenever you are depressed. Instead, take this one month cool off period to do just that..cool off. Let your ex miss you like you are missing him or her.


Achieving the Unattainable Goal Number (3) - Devise a Plan


Take advantage of this one month break to devise a plan that can help you to get them back. Not having a plan is just as bad as drunk dialing and text message terrorism. If you don’t know how to devise a plan, ask around or look on the Internet. Remember that being organized is a great friend. If you want your ex back, you need to have a plan in place to help you achieve this goal.


It’s true that most people want to mope and feel sorry for themselves but this isn’t the time to do such a thing. Instead, use that time to work on you and your negative attitudes and habits while coming up with a plan to help you out. If you have a great plan, it is only great if you follow the process exactly. Don’t forget that this problems don’t go away on their own and can’t be kissed and made up. Use that plan of yours to solve the issues especially if you want your ex back.


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