After a breakup, sometimes doubts set in, that you regret ending your relationship, and that you want to try your luck with your ex again.
You have tried to forget it in every possible way, but only one solution seems to be open to you: to win it back. However, this operation is not the simplest and often requires patience and perseverance.
Find out in this article how to get your ex back by Vashikaran specialist Astrologer, and what are the different steps you need to go through to get there.
Accept the break
There are two distinct phases in the recapture of love: the reconstruction and the reconquest itself.
One of the main steps in getting your ex back by is to accept the breakup. Indeed, it is important to be aware of the end of a relationship in order to increase your chances of winning back your ex, because this allows you to put less pressure on yourself and put yourself in perspective. In this way, you don't just focus on winning back and harboring vain hope in the event of failure.
It's no secret that the adage “run away from me, I follow you, follow me, I run from you” is a must. This proverb is all the more telling when you want to get your ex back. Tell yourself that the more you insist on seeing your ex again by putting emotional pressure on him or her, the more likely he or she will run away and extricate themselves from the situation.
However, reconquest should not rhyme with humiliation. Sure, you can make amends and apologize for hurting your ex, especially if you are partly to blame for the breakup, but don't fall into the trap of begging or submitting. You have to keep in mind that love is not about dominance or ego put aside, but truly respect. So, to make your ex want to get back into a relationship with you, respect and protect yourself. Forget the phone harassment and other desperate acts like going to his workplace, looking to see him or her at all costs.
Take care of yourself and try to give yourself all the love you want to have for your ex. The goal is to focus on the positive of the future and not on the negative that the breakup generated.
Love yourself first
Before even starting a process of reconquest, you must therefore go through the stage of reconstruction. To do this, avoid looking at photos of your ex, rereading the messages. Instead, clear your head, go out with friends, and occupy your mind. This mourning phase of the past relationship is essential to be able to recover your ex, who we miss dearly.