He’s Already Dating – Are We Through?

The fact of the matter is that, unless he’s a very untypical person, he’s not really in a relationship; he’s just on the rebound.

 

At first it feels like the end of the world.  You can’t believe it.  You broke up.  Whoever said or did whatever, that’s the truth.  And then you have to find a way to get over it.  But you know that’s not what you want.  The only thing that will make you happy is to get him back and make things work.  So that’s what you resolve to do.

Yet, there’s a problem.  You can’t believe it but he’s already got together with someone new and from all that you hear and all that you see, it looks as if he’s serious.  So everything you told yourself about how you could put things right and get back that special relationship looks as if it was just a self-delusion.  He’s gone.  It’s over.

Don’t be too sure.  The fact of the matter is that, unless he’s a very untypical person, he’s not really in a relationship; he’s just on the rebound.  And some very reliable data shows that 95% of rebound relationships fail.

Why should that be?  Because when someone’s on the rebound they’re denying important truths and telling themselves convenient white lies.  Your ex feels the loss of your relationship as heavily as you do, which is why he’s so desperate to plug the hole it has left in his life.  It’s very probable that he doesn’t really want to be with this new woman.  It’s just that he doesn’t want to be alone. It’s a life without you.

But he is without you and every moment he spends with his new woman is a keen reminder of that.  He is made constantly aware that the woman he is with is not you and soon he’ll realize he misses you, he needs you and he wants you back.  Bide your time and believe in yourself.

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