You may occasionally hear about bondage sex. Your partner has expressed an openness to the idea of adding some bondage play to your lovemaking. You may also consider trying something new to spice things up. These are some things to keep in mind when trying bondage sex.
Be patient
You can spank, whip or simply provide different types of sensational stimulation to your lover's skin. It is a great idea to try different types of products on your partner. BDSM Tools could include feather dusters and ice cubes or warming lotion. You can find these items anywhere in your home. Be sure to protect your partner with any items you find. Be cautious.
Restraint and sensory deprivation
You will not only restrain the submissive partner, but also deprive him/her one of the five senses. Blindfolds are the most common sensory deprivation method. Blindfolding a person can increase their sense of touch. This can be combined with some restraint to make your partner completely enthralled. If you touch your lover, you will be sexually stimulated.
Only bondage sex should be done with someone you trust
This should not be attempted in a short-term affair or as a one-night-stand affair. This is how you should think about it. This is how you will surrender your body to the other person. You may even be blindfolded or restrained. It is important to have trust in your partner that they will not do anything against you. This trust is difficult to have with someone you don't know, or with someone with whom you haven't discussed your expectations.
Safety
Safe sex is important. Avoid engaging in dangerous activities like whipping, candle wax drip, or caning. You may injure your partner if you don't have a lot of knowledge about some of the more serious acts.
Start slowly by starting with light actions. Then, you can increase the intensity of your strike. Don't try to force your partner too quickly. To allow the sensation of spanking to penetrate your partner's brain and skin, do not leave them alone. Your lover's skin should be rubbed with your hand or another soft object after it has been smacked.
Before you use your sex tool or sex toy on your lover, make sure that you practice with it. This will ensure that you don't accidentally hit any sensitive areas. Whips can get out of control easily. Practice together with your partner. You can strike them while you are fully clothed and in a non-sexual setting to see if they respond.
No matter what tool you use, don't strike any bony parts of your body, including the spine, collarbone and elbows, neck, head, lower back, where the kidneys are, and back of the knees. Don't tie anything around your neck. You should not cover your nose or mouth. If you are going to tie something to any part of your body, ensure it isn't too tight that it cuts off blood circulation. Also, it must be easy to remove. If the person pulls on the restraining items, it should not become tighter.
Don't leave your partner's legs or arms in the air too long as this could cause numbness from lack of blood circulation. If this takes a while, give your partner some time to move his/her limbs so that blood circulation can continue. If your partner is having difficulty moving, don't leave him/her alone.
Communication
It is important to be clear about the limitations of your relationship with your partner. Respect and adhere to these limits. Restraint sex involves many people who agree to use a safety word, words or gesture that will tell you to stop doing anything. These safety signals will be used by your partner when you feel uncomfortable with something.
Consent
Bondage sex should be fun for you both. This should not be done to please your partner. You will never enjoy it. It is also not a good idea to force your partner to do this.