Before we get into the specifics of how to sext and what to say, you have to understand what sexting is all about. There's a misconception about sexting. Some people think it's all about talking dirty. Well, both these answers are right but only when they are connected in a conversation. A man can’t simply talk about putting his stuff inside a woman. Sexting is much more than that. Arousing the woman sexually is the right way of sexting. Good sexting is not physical. It's emotional.
Why has it become so Popular?
Sexting has been around since the advent of cell phones. People have become so comfortable with this form of communication that it has all but replaced normal conversation. It's no wonder dirty talk over the phone has been replaced by sexual intimacy over SMS and MMS. Sexting is a no string attached, no awkwardness way to strike romance with another person. Women like sexting much better as they’re more comfortable with it rather than just talking dirty over the phone. Not using your voice means you don't have to worry about eavesdroppers listening in on the conversation. Simply put, sexting has become popular because it's discreet but still visual.
How to Initiate good Sexting
To many guys, this is 2nd or even 3rd base in a relationship or fling. Fortunately, it's not that hard to learn how to sext properly. You just have to remember 2 things. The first thing you have to remember is that girls will only start sexting you if you strike an emotion in them. Make them laugh or even confuse them or hold them in suspense for a little bit. This will get their attention. Once you've got their attention you'll want to reference some kind of connection that the two of you have in common and then wrap it around a sexual innuendo. This way, the girl will feel more comfortable continuing the sexual conversation. You have to make her think of you specifically. Paint a picture and make her think you're right there seducing her.
As mentioned earlier, sexting is all about making a good connection and striking up an emotion. Practice "mock conversations". Write something that you want to tell her on a piece of paper and guess the responses. When you're practising, don't make her responses sexual. Make them realistic and try to tie in a sexual reference so that you can transition normal text into an erotic conversation.